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Friendship, and who shows up.

No. 1133 haiga4:41
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Friendship, and who shows up. It opens on the quiet fear that no one would notice if we were gone, and answers with the title poem: look at your friends to see who you are. The first verses are about finding your people — two stink bugs, parallel lines that finally meet, a duck and two chicks out on the town. The middle is friendship in practice: joy doubled, sorrow halved, a silence that says enough, a plant you both have to tend. It doesn’t skip the hard parts — distrust, rival teams, leaving someone who makes you lonely — and it ends with advice for being a friend worth having: fold a paper crane for a stranger, and just be yourself.

The haiga, in order

33 haiga · as they appear in the video
  1. sometimes we wonder / if anyone will notice / when we are not here
  2. if you want to know / who you are, look at your friends / birds of a feather
  3. we all have problems / some of us are just better / at how we hide them
  4. alone the old man / sits with a bag of stale bread / wailing for his friends
  5. imaginary / friends are not always the best / givers of advice
  6. life is too short to / not have any friends, so you / should try to be one
  7. making a new friend / is worth ignoring the fact / you could get eaten
  8. being a stink bug / only sucks until you meet / another stink bug
  9. perpendicular / is what we call it when two / parallel lines meet
  10. we are all kneaded / from the same dough, but not baked / in the same oven
  11. you are my lifer / unique bird sings in the tree / added to the list
  12. one duck and two chicks / looking for fun in all the / foul places in town
  13. few things are better / than having a good time with / people who like you
  14. what is a giggle / but a soft secretive laugh / shared with another
  15. sharing your joy will / double it, while sharing your / sorrow will halve it
  16. few things are better / than looking out a window / while holding a friend
  17. let’s hug to the left / heart to heart then take a breath / tension and release
  18. sometimes just silence / says everything you would like / someone else to know
  19. being together / is heaven on earth when things / start going to hell
  20. sometimes words cannot / express what it means to be / together with friends
  21. every friendship / is a plant that both of you / need to attend to
  22. we offer advice / by the bucketful, but we / accept it in drops
  23. is it better to / distrust your closest friends or / be deceived by them
  24. I don't like your team / but even if I would try / you don't like my team
  25. if someone makes you / feel lonely, then you should not / remain together
  26. you should be the fool / who loves and trusts way too much / we need more like that
  27. wherever you go / a piece of me will always / remain in your heart
  28. do not worry if / you forgot to tell me that / you really loved me
  29. leave no trace behind / other than your memory / in all those you met
  30. fold a paper crane / then give it to a stranger / as a sign of peace
  31. the purpose of life / is not to make money but / to make friends instead
  32. worry not that no / one knows you, but instead seek / to be worth knowing
  33. swans do not need to / bathe to keep their feathers white / so just be yourself
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