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The Name We Share

Family, carried across generations.

No. 0432 haiga5:19
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Family, carried forward across generations. The song opens in a grandmother’s kitchen — garlic, olive oil, basil — and then names its theme: a shared name means something different to each of us who carries it. The first verses are the sayings handed down (two ears and one mouth; nothing good happens after midnight). The middle passes from parents to children — reading aloud, stories around the fire, the friends who become the siblings you never knew you wanted. Then the losses, arriving in their proper order. It ends on what outlasts us: seeds sown, a dance that goes on, and the long cycle of being reborn, remembering, and forgetting.

The haiga, in order

32 haiga · as they appear in the video
  1. garlic and olive / oil and basil smell like / my grandma's kitchen
  2. the name we share means / something different to each / of us who bears it
  3. a grandma’s afghan / is crocheted together with / memories and love
  4. my great grandma said / two ears and one mouth means you / listen twice, speak once
  5. nothing good ever / happens after midnight or / so my grandma said
  6. books, wine, friends, and cheese / are the four things that improve / as they get older
  7. no bond is stronger / than a mother’s love for child / or moth to a flame
  8. I laughed at my mom / when she asked me to help thread / her needle for her
  9. believe in santa / or do not, but one day you / might become santa
  10. if you want your kids / to love to read then you need / to read around them
  11. you can tell your kids / what they should be doing but / they'll do what you do
  12. treat them well when they / are young and they will treat you / well when you are old
  13. few things are better / than reading a book out loud / to somebody else
  14. shared scary stories / around the fire with your / best friends are the best
  15. sometimes just getting / everybody in a room / gets things done quicker
  16. rub a-dub-dub, thanks / for hot grub, hooray to god / should be said daily
  17. the friends you have are / the siblings that you never / knew that you wanted
  18. you can never go / home after you have left home / but you can come home
  19. a single feather / falling from the empty nest / drifting with the breeze
  20. life will separate / you from your friends, so enjoy / being together
  21. one of life's regrets / is not saying goodbye to / a friend you once had
  22. coo of mourning dove / like a wind blowing across / someone’s broken heart
  23. grandparents die then / parents die, then kids die; that / is the right order
  24. sons bury fathers / during peace, but during war / fathers bury sons
  25. your ancestors are / waiting for you to pass on / what they have taught you
  26. in the end it is / about what you gave and taught / that really matters
  27. success in life is / measured by the seeds you sow / and not what you reap
  28. you don't get to choose / what your grandkids will call you / they get to decide
  29. a dancer is not / ever forgotten as long / as the dance goes on
  30. it is hard to write / the story of your life when / no one shares a pen
  31. sometimes it takes more / than a thousand words to tell / someone a story
  32. infinitely we / are reborn, remember and / always forgetting
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